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Old Feb 22, 2026, 07:22 PM
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Sorry for the longer thread as a new user, but I randomly remembered this experience from years ago and I'm trying to undersrtand why things happened here that didn't happen at any local county or private clinic before or after this one.


In my mid-20s, I attended a newly opened clinic in the Rust Belt region of PA near Pittsburgh. I was dealing with social anxiety and trying to build "quiet confidence" after years of being treated like an outsider. The county shut down it's doctors. The clinic was a converted restaurant where the lobby featured a plexiglass-enclosed wooden cubicle staffed by two female LSWs around my age.

The atmosphere shifted after I overheard a manager in the lobby telling a county worker helping another patient, "We just had our first death, and I need help with the paperwork." Following this, the clinic immediately implemented "forced med-checks"—mandatory 15-minute sessions after every doctor visit. These sessions were highly unusual. The first LSW maintained 100% eye contact without any typical clinical "push-back." Then immediately after the first session and returning to the cubicle, a second LSW (not assigned to me), exited the cubicle, intercepted me in a narrow hallway, leaning against the wall in a socially familiar way while intensely flicking a pen. While now standing between my worker and me, she asked, "So I guess she's taking care of you?" in a tone that felt strangely personal, then walked away without an introduction.

Over the following weeks my worker randomly left and this second worker seemed "everywhere," giving me quiet greetings and glances back after walking by. I was wondering if "I was seeing things". Eventually, she replaced my original worker. During our session, she also used 100% eye contact and, when I mentioned past taunting from cheerleaders, she revealed she had been one, joking "Hey, don't make fun of me." She seemed physically restless and was wiggling/squirming in her chair throughout the session. Shortly after she also left, stricter Male and Female staff arrived in, and I was abruptly discharged over a "missed appointment" policy that other local clinics later told me made no sense like counting a same-day reschedule as canceling two appointments.

Is this typical behavior that occurs in a small clinic? I have never experienced this at the county or subsequent clinic that I went to, they all act similar to how the county worked. My current clinic thought their appointment policy was strict and bizarre. I always wondered if the LSWs were extremely close or if that's just typical for LSWs.

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Old Feb 22, 2026, 08:17 PM
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Now looking at reviews for the place that has since shut down, workers put comments l like, "Manager plays favorirtes", "Therapists are basically told to run clients through like an assembly line, hardly able to even take restroom breaks, and you pray for no-shows, so you can have a break", and "No hope of advancement."
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Old Feb 23, 2026, 03:52 AM
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Sounds like my CM (not really a small clinic but our team you have to be referred to because you failed a bunch of other treatment for years and had a million and seven hospitalizations so she probably has a smaller amount of very needy clients like myself). Feels very inappropriate and boundary violating to me but she says she has "strict boundaries" but that means Unpredictable, inconsistent, and unclear in my experience. She tugged at my ponytail once from behind even knowing I have severe severe severe PTSD from abuse and set me off and she took the supervisor saying "you know if she calls the crisis line and she's on her million mile an hour spiel you can just say 'STOP' " as "you can just hang up" which, no, another part of that PTSD is a very deep abandonment wound so I tried to kill myself that night THANK YOU JANET LOVE YOU TOO YOU FIRED BYTCH (she was so awful the past few months they switched me FINALLY)

but no, yeah, case managers when they don't deal with a million clients have no chill and will go off on hours on their XC days and snowshoeing and how they fked up with their other clients (not literally hours since we usually only meet like half of one but it definitely feels that long)
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Old Feb 23, 2026, 11:14 AM
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Thanks for the info because I tried asking in a few other places but never really got any responses.

This felt so different because in my smaller area, the county nor other private clinics acted anywhere like this.

The first worker’s behavior could possibly just be inexperienced at a new clinic but I have a much harder time explaining the second.

I had never been used to any clinician, especially one unassigned to me act like is a close friend and seem to be so much wanting attention. Also I’m not used to me “causing” anxiety in someone else.

When you “look up” such behavior you get everything from “very awkward rapport” to “positive countertransference”.
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Social Workers are good for absolutely nothing. They're not educated in anything. I can't tell you how many social workers treated me poorly and played games. Last year one called me "stubborn", another one called me "self-centered" and lots of them said "I can't help you".
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Social Workers are good for absolutely nothing. They're not educated in anything. I can't tell you how many social workers treated me poorly and played games. Last year one called me "stubborn", another one called me "self-centered" and lots of them said "I can't help you".
Oh wow, I didn't realize that kinda stuff was so common.

My experience was kind of unusual because I was so used to being the ignored guy.

Yet, one day when the clinic was empty, I mean besides me and the two social workers, it just felt odd.

Like I didn't enjoy how we were told we had to get Med checks, as I wasn't a, danger to myself or others.

Yet I told myself, "Oh well, at least I get to see young females instead of Males".

Then it started to become unusual, like the first worker in the room, gave me 100% eye contact and didn't seem to give any pushback or "How does this make you feel?" so I loosened up figuring I don't have to go through the typical back and forth.

But where it got really strange was when we get back to the shared box/cubicle up front, the other I never met, just slides out and leans casually in front of me and in front of her coworker saying" So I guess she's taking care of you?" like 10 inches away while partially blocking the exit.

I found it odd that my worker didn't go" What are you doing?" but she seemed to just wait until her coworker was done then handed me the next appointment card.

I left not knowing if I was being flirted with or what the hell was happening as I never got attention like that in a clinic.
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